Children can be very persistent. They get an idea into their heads and then pursue it to the point of aggravation sometimes. We as parents are busy and it is often tempting to brush them off for awhile. Watch out though, that can be a dangerous habit in more ways than one. I would like to share a personal story that will illustrate my point.
Two years ago, the fire department spoke at my son's school for fire prevention safety week. They spoke about many fire safety rules and stressed the importance of changing the smoke detector batteries in your home. My son John took to heart the fireman's words. He came home and started in on his dad about checking the batteries of our smoke detectors. My husband told John that he would check them but he put it off for "later". My tenacious son kept after my husband for two weeks straight. Finally, he checked the smoke detectors and was shocked to discover that the batteries in every single detector in our house was dead. He took John to the store and bought new smoke detectors with backup systems for the entire house.
Two weeks later on Thanksgiving morning, we woke up at 4:00 am to the sound of smoke detectors going off. We had a fire in our family room which was at the other end of the house from the bedrooms.
We frantically started looking for the source and realized it had come from a trash can outside on the front porch. It had actually melted and the melted plastic had leaked under the siding and caught the wall on fire. DH said to call the fire department while he got out the hose and started trying to put the fire out himself. In the meantime, I got the kids out and put them in the truck while calling the fire department.
DH worked with the hose while the kids and I sat in the truck with the heat on (it was 20 degrees out!). He was able to put out some of the fire with the hose but was glad when the fire department arrived. After the fire was out, DH told the firemen how lucky we were that our son listened to them at school and insisted on checking our smoke detectors.
The next day, the fire chief from our town came to our house. He wanted more information about how John had saved us. We gladly told him the story and were so very grateful and proud of our son.
John received several awards for this. The first was an award ceremony with former County Executive Doug Duncan of Montgomery County. There was also an award ceremony at a fire hall in Rockville with the fire chief of Damascus and the fire chief of Montgomery County. And last but certainly not least....... he received an award at the Governor's Mansion in Annapolis from Governor Ehrlich.
Our children can be a wealth of information. They can bring laughter and they can bring tears. They can be the cause of our frustrations and the cause of our greatest joys. We gave them life and sometimes, they give life right back to us. Listen to your children...... even when you don't think you have time. It just might save your life.














What a wonderful story! How lucky we are to have such persistant (aka 'annoying') children! Your son is a HERO! :)
This past Friday we had several friends over who decided that throwing their empty beer bottles in the recycle bin was too much work - it was easier to open the trash can lid and toss them in. Saturday morning my husband found about 15 beer bottles in the trash can and announced that even though it really mad him mad he was NOT going through the trash to dig them out. Our 7 year old daughter told him "then your not being a responsible citizen to Mother Earth" and dug right on in! I love that kid!
Posted by: Chrissy | Oct 15, 2007 12:37:00 PM
That is such an amazing story. I agree that it is so important to listen to you kids, because you can learn from them, too.
Posted by: Leslie Swan | Oct 15, 2007 11:30:41 PM
Gosh, yes, we should be grateful. I think persistence (even though can be a bit tenacious when they are young) is a great characteristic to have. Our son is like this and I hope it will help him throughout his life.
Posted by: Melinda | Oct 16, 2007 8:22:48 AM
Thank you. It was a Thanksgiving to remember. Despite the fact that our home was damaged, we had so much to be thankful for that year.
Posted by: Kelly | Oct 16, 2007 8:26:10 AM
That's amazing, Kelly. Glad to hear your son was recognized for his persistence! Even gladder to know you and your family are okay because of him.
Posted by: Kathy T. | Oct 16, 2007 11:13:11 AM
Thank you Kathy. We were so surprised and grateful for the attention he received. He felt like a big man at 6!
Posted by: KellyBax | Oct 16, 2007 2:10:29 PM